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Disagreements develop from time to time in relationships. Domestic
Violence is not a disagreement. It is a pattern of
behaviors used by one partner to establish and maintain power and
control over the other. These behaviors can become more
frequent and intense over time. The abusive person is responsible
for these behaviors. That person is the only one who can change
them.
As part of the commitment to the thorough investigation and
preparation of cases for prosecution, two Legal Specialists and one
Assistant State's Attorney staff the unit. The Legal
Specialists contact and interview victims and witnesses, gather
necessary evidence such as medical records and 911 tapes, and issue
subpoenas to assure the presence of all essential witnesses. The
support offered victims by the unit often empowers the victim to go
forward with prosecution who otherwise might not find the courage to
proceed. The State's Attorney Office has a pro-prosecution
policy, which places the decision of whether to prosecute on the
Assistant State's Attorney handling the case rather than on the
victim.
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Power and
Control |
| Indications are that battering occurs because the
abuser needs to establish "power and control" over the
victim. The abuser employs a number of nonviolent and
eventually violent tactics to maintain power and control. |
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Always remember that you have the right to
be safe from any abuse in your personal relationships.
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THE CYCLE OF VIOLENCE |
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The three phases of
the cycle of violence are:
- Tension Building Phase - often described by
victims as "walking on eggshells".
- Explosion Phase - hitting, slapping,
punching, spitting, throwing objects, etc.
- "Honeymoon" Phase - characterized by
apologies and promises that the violence will not happen
again.
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Safety with an Ex-Parte or Protective Order:
These orders can be applied for through both the Circuit and
District Courts. Once an order is in place, violation of it may lead
to criminal prosecution. Keep a copy of the order with you at all
times, leave copies with friends, employers, family and keep a copy
in your car. Making all the key people in your life aware of the
protection you've sought will only enhance your efforts and continue
to keep you safe. Call the police/911 immediately upon any
violation of the terms of the Order.
You should never have to feel afraid in any
relationship.
Useful Phone Numbers:
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